FAQs

When you arrive, we’ll verify you are enrolled for the evening and review the rules of conduct. We’ll ask you to sign that you have accepted these.

You then undress and leave your clothes in the secure coat check. You’ll get a numbered bracelet with which you can order drinks, pick up your belongings and settle the bill at the end of the evening. Also so you can keep your hands free for other activities!

The dress code for our evenings is naked or underwear. You can keep your underwear on but FYI it’s likely to come off quite quickly. Footwear is mandatory for hygiene reasons.

There is a bar where you can order a drink and chat with other bators. This is a great time to relax- guys are friendly… say hi, ask what their screen names are. You’d be surprised how much people want to chat!

Then you’ll likely be ready and wanting to explore. The play areas are on different floors. The lighting is dim and there are lots of small spaces to bate in a small group as well as larger spaces if you want to be more adventurous and/or show off!

You’ll see some guys jerking off one-on-one or in groups while others are just watching. Some will be moaning, others quiet. Some will cum multiple times, others will edge. As the evening progresses, inhibitions quickly melt away. You’ll know you are relaxed when you have one hot cock in your hand, another guy massaging your balls and a third is edging you… while a fourth shoots his load on you…

You can do any or all of the above. It’s YOUR time so relax and enjoy as you see best.

Here are a few interesting articles about the group bate experience:

https://www.gq.com/story/why-straight-men-are-joining-masturbation-clubs

https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/jsherman/gay-men-mutual-masturbation-jack-off-groups

https://www.menshealth.com/uk/sex/a26707137/masturbation-clubs/

Absolutely not. The rules are clear and the guys respect them. Each person who comes in must sign that he accepts the rules of conduct. As everyone has explicitly accepted the rules, there is a social code that is understood. If you see something you feel doesn’t fit the rules, speak up. And if it continues please come and talk to us.

We are strict. Any infringement of our rules will result in being asked to leave or a permanent ban from our events.

All kinds of guys participate in our events : straight, bi, gay, of all races, ethnicities, body types and ages (over 18!).

It is completely normal to feel some level of apprehension when coming to a bate party for the first time. But rest assured, our events are friendly, safe spaces where you can be yourself. It can help to read some of the comments of others who talk about their first group bate experiences.

That is totally normal! We receive messages every day about the same topic!
There are all kinds of men who participate in our events. But one thing is certain- no one is perfect! You’ll see all sizes, ages, colors and shapes of guys – and of penises. Everyone is welcome.

The vast majority of men at our events are friendly and very respectful. If someone approaches you or touches you and you aren’t interested, it’s ok to move their hand away. If they try again, it’s ok to tell them you’re not interested. If you ever feel uncomfortable, come and talk to us.

The best time to arrive is during the event times. Please don’t arrive early.

Our events typically last 2-2.5 hours with many bators staying until much later in the evening.

It is important to note that during the official hours of the event our rules strictly apply.

However, if you come early or at the very beginning of the evening, there could be guys already at the bar who are not enrolled and have not accepted the terms of our event– the same token after 9pm other clients can arrive and engage in other activities not sanctioned by our group.

If they are at a Jacks party, they are there for the same reason you are! All men masturbate, even the 1% that claim not to. ☺ Relax and have a good time! It might be an opportunity to discover a new dimension with an old mate!